Our culture is moving farther from the historically recognized gender roles, but even if we don’t want to acknowledge our special roles, they still exist. Men, women, moms, and dads all offer something unique and valuable to this world. Each of us is made from God’s imagination with different gifts, talents, and genetic blueprints. Our uniqueness should be celebrated, and our chance to impact our community as the men or women we are made to be should be affirmed. The goal is not to put us in boxes but to celebrate the men and women we are. All of us are different, but we are each made with a thoughtful purpose.
That being said, fathers have been given a very important role to play in their children’s lives. An involved Dad significantly improves the chance of children living a happy, healthy, and successful life! We can’t cancel fatherhood. If we love our kids, we need to embrace the role of dads in helping raise well-adjusted kids!
The good news is that even if you are a single Mom, the role of “father” can be taken up by any loving, trusted, and involved male who is willing to help parent your children. Grandpa, mentors, trusted coaches, church leaders, and others can step up and help offer the unique influence that comes from a Father.
If you are in a two-parent home, it is time to cheer Dad on! His funny way of changing the diaper, tucking the kids into bed, or serving dinner matters so much. Encourage him to bring his own style to your parenting team rather than let mom’s way be the only way in your home.
Here are five reasons why fathers are important:
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